21 Signs You Have A Great Boyfriend

1. He is your number one fan. He is the first one to congratulate you when you passed all your subjects. He makes the layout of your tarpaulin when you were awarded as cum laude. He delivers the news to everyone when you win a certain contest. He may not carry cheerleading pompoms, but you he makes you feel that you are a superstar.

2. Even during your losing moments, he will still be very proud of you. He will cheer you up and tell you you’re still the best even though you failed to achieve an award you were aiming for or got defeated on a competition. Even if you feel like a pathetic loser, he will make you feel like a winner.

3. He does not fail to text and call you. Whether they are “good morning” and “good night” messages, or a regular reminder for you to eat your breakfast, dinner and lunch. Also, he texts/calls you even though he is with his friends. It may not be like your usual exchange of texts or length of conversations, but then he will make it a point to update you about how he is.

4. You seem to have a personal doctor. He knows your health conditions and restrictions. He has also memorized the medicine or whatever you need to take when you feel sick. And when you do, he takes care of you. But even if he is not beside you, you will still feel his care and he will always wish that you get well soon.

5. He hates it whenever you cry. He feels really terrible. He feels like he is the worst guy on the world. And he will do everything just to wipe away the tears on your eyes.

6. A bird? A plane? Superman? No. He is just your guy. He is your unmasked superhero, your angel in disguise. When someone does something wrong to you or terribly hurts your feelings, the bitch mode in him suddenly switches on.

7. He does not get angry with you when you are too busy. He understands well the nature of your work, he cheers you up when you feel so damn tired and when it is possible, he gives you a helping hand to make your tasks easier.

8. Inspiration—he gives you so much of this. Whenever thoughts of giving up on your dream bothers you, just thinking of him will make you want to aspire and strive further.

9. He is your biggest support system. He makes you feel good when you feel so nervous the day before your thesis defense. He gives the comfort you need whenever you feel like the world is against you. He takes you somewhere when you feel bad. No matter how hard the problems you are facing, he will convince you that you are strong enough and you can do it.

11. He trusts you and he assures you that you can trust him too. You cannot deny that both of you get jealous at times, but at the end of the day, you still know that you are his only one. No matter how many girls admire him, you are confident that they can never take him away from you.10. Religion is never a BIG issue between the two of you. Yes, you may argue about it a little or it may ignite ‘mild’ hard feelings, but then it only comes once in a blue moon. Also, it has never put your relationship at stake because you understand each other.

12. He never gets tired of telling you how much he loves you. He doesn’t just tell you it every day, but every hour if possible.

13. Actions speak louder for him too. He does not just say that he loves you, he shows it. He holds your hand, brushes your hair, massages you, hugs you, kisses you, puts his hand on your shoulder, brings you home, buys you food, and every little thing he can do just to make you feel loved.

14. You do not feel ‘required’ to give him gifts every time it is your monthsary/anniversary. Yes, you really love giving him presents and he appreciates that, but then, if you really cannot, it does not matter with him.

15. He makes you feel beautiful. He tells you how cute you are and how his thoughts about how your new dress suits you perfectly. You may not be the hottest chick in the campus or the one with the prettiest face, but then in his eyes, no one can exceed your loveliness.

16. You feel safe around him. You used to hate going to malls or other places, or going home late at night because you are overly paranoid that there are ‘bad guys’ around. But then, when he is with you, you are carefree and you feel guarded because you know he protects you.

17. You have fights and conflicts every now and then but it has never become unhealthy or toxic for you. You learn to forgive and accept everything about him. And the best thing is that, it makes your relationship grow much stronger.

18. He shares his dreams with you. He tells you if he wants to take up Law or if he wants to enroll at a film school someday. He also lets you know his dream place to live in and the list of the destinations he wants to travel to. Somehow, this makes you feel a part of his future.

19. He believes in forever with you. He wants you to be the girl he will marry when he reaches the age of 24 or 25. He will do everything just to keep you in his life.

20. You become a better person through him. No matter what kind of person you were, you feel like he has brought out all the best in you. He does not change the way you are. You are still the same person as you were when he met you, you have only become more amazing and a whole lot tougher.

21. He effortlessly makes you love him more every day. You are happy and contented with whatever you have as a pair. You know that your relationship has its own flaws and can never be perfect, but who cares anyway? You love each other so much and it is the most important thing for both of you. Also, you can even think of a lot more to add on this list because he is just too awesome for you. (Just as I do, though I only chose the ones that I think are the best.)

I wonder if i'm in one of those categories...

Her cuteness...

Her cuteness...

There's this girl that i kinda interested and i like with

But, sometimes i ponder myself

What makes her caught my sight, my attention?

Her cuteness...

Her cuteness was the one that caught my attention...

Her smile

Her laugh

Her cute laughter

Everything about her, her cuteness...

I can't stop staring at her

I can't stop looking at her

As her cute personality and her cute looks

Distract in everything I do...

What makes her caught my sight, my attention?

Her cuteness...

Waiting

Waiting

What am i waiting?

A thing? An event?

No,i'm waiting for a person

A person who i truly cares and truly like about.

Shes the person why i manage to do the impossible

To do things that i've never thought of doing so

Yes, i'm waiting for her

For her where i can call her mine

Who i will cherish

Who i will love

Who i will take care of her

Who i will be there for her

And yes again, i'm waiting for her

Doesn't matter how long it will take

I will and i can wait

Shes special to me in every way, even though she doesn't think so

But for me, yes she is

She has this smile that i couldn't really forget

It was her smile that caught my attention

Her smile was her best attribute

And thats why i like her

Her personality, makes her much more attractive

Shes a decent girl, sweet and fun to be with

Shes a good person with a kind heart and soul

And thats what makes me like her soo much

And that's why,

I will wait till that day come


- Signing off, Lemon

I...M...I...S...S...U

I went to Penang for a 3 days 2 night trip with my two best brothers

Simon and Wayne

It was initially a trip for me and Simon

But, we ask Wayne to join us...

NO regrets...We enjoyed

3 of us have plans or ideas what they want to do when they reach Penang

Wayne, wanted to try the food there since its known famously for its food

Simon, wanted to take some nice photos of Penang. Mostly the street art wall paintings

As for me, I had a special plan or idea.

It was meant for a girl whom I like.

The idea i had was to snap random photos that spell out a certain words or phrase

And i've chosen I.MISS.U

Within the 3 days period

Searching high and low for words that caught my attention

Atlas, i found them

These were pictures taken to express alphabets

I did this

Just to show her that i miss her

It took me 3 days just to get these pictures

I hope she likes it

And understand how i feel

Photography - Part 1

Photography...

Is the art,science and practice of creating durable images by recording light or other electromagnetic radiation

Chemically by means of light-sensitive material such as photographic film

Or

Electronically by means of an image sensor

Now, that is what photography meant on the internet

But I can't disagree it since its...Well the internet

But.. 

For me, it has a different meaning...

Different understanding...

Lets start with a question where friends and other people ask me alot these days...

"Why did you take photos?"

Its simple, the answer is 


I take photos to capture moments where we will forget in the future.

With pictures,we can view all our precious moments.Special moments.Unforgetable moments. With them, 

we will remember it for the rest of our lives.

And I ask them this in return to their question


"Why Not?"

I had my first camera when i was in Secondary 2

And thats when i started to learn on how to take pictures

It was a digital camera

A digital camera with many wonderful memories

These were a few shots that i had taken from my digital camera

This digital camera really recorded or taken many sweet memories

And sad memories as well

But what appeal me the most when i started using that camera

Was the sky

Why?

The Sky has no limits...

The Sky is a wonderful thing to see when it has unique clouds

The sky is my horizon

Where i can be at peace,

At ease

The Sky shows freedom

"We would never know how high we are,
Till we are called to rise,
And then we are true to plan,
Our statures touch the sky."

But...

I was never good at taking photos during that time

Cause i was just playing around with it.

Didn't know the right way to take or how to take photos

As last time we learned, "Aim & Shoot"

That was the phrase that we are learned and really implement it

"Aim & Shoot"

11 Things You Should Have In Your Life Before You Let Someone Else In...

When do you know you’re ready to settle down with someone and get serious?

Often when we go into relationships, we Gen-Y folk don’t have our sh*t together — actually most of the time, we don’t have our sh*t together, but I guess that’s what post-grad life is all about.

We’re looking for jobs, trying to find apartments and meeting a million new people every day. There’s a lot going on, and that’s okay. That’s being in your 20s.

You know, maybe sometimes we jump into relationships with a reckless abandon because it’s easy and that’s one fewer thing to think about while we’re struggling to pay student loans and living on a diet of Ramen and tap water. But, if we do this, how much time do we actually have to nurture that relationship?

It’s important to have a sense of stability in your life and your newfound adult identity before you can let someone join that life.

If you want it to last and be as fulfilling as it can be, your relationship has to be bred in a good environment. Here are 11 things you should have in your life before looking for a serious relationship.

1. When You Know Your Self-Worth

It’s been said many times before, but I’m saying it again because it can’t be reiterated and shoved down your throat enough: You can’t love someone else until you learn to love yourself. Having a man in your life shouldn’t be the thing that makes you happy. You are what should make you happy.

You, in all your fabulous shoes and sparkling personality glory. So many marriages and relationships end — and often badly, bloodily, with scarcely a survivor.

In the end, you really only have yourself. Always love yourself the most — even if it’s just by a little. Rely on yourself. Know what you want and deserve out of life.

Your relationship with yourself is going to be the one that lasts the longest. You’re stuck with you forever. Learn to appreciate the person you are, and all of the beautiful things you have to offer to the world.

And once you do that, if someone comes along who loves you as much as you love yourself, well, in the words of Carrie Bradshaw, “That’s just fabulous.”

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2. When You Have Enough (Clean) Towels for Two

Part of becoming an adult means being able to take on certain self-sufficient responsibilities. This includes doing your laundry. If you’re ready to have a (or The) serious relationship, you can bet your life that there are going to be a lot of sleepovers involved.

Nothing is less cute than having to tell your boyfriend that he’s going to need to reuse your scummy towel because you couldn’t be bothered to wash your clothes.

It may be a small thing, but it definitely contains some serious merit. Taking control of even the smallest aspects of your life is a big sign that you’re a grounded individual.

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3. When You’ve Found Your Ride-or-Die Friends

Having an established group of friends is essential before you can be ready to give your heart to another person.

I’m not talking about some big group of homies you send the same mass-text to when you’re looking for encouragement on a Tinder date with some rando, I’m talking about your fight-tooth-and-nail, willing-to-take-a-bullet-for, ride-or-die friends.

I’ve had many friendships end, many I thought would last a lifetime — and when I had to say goodbye to them, I was left broken-hearted. But I’m starting to understand who I am now, and I’m beginning to grasp the idea that not everyone is meant to be in your life forever.

Over time, it begins to become clear who are the “lifers.” The ones who are going to stick it out with you until the end.

And when you find those people, and you develop that net of support — that’s when you can let yourself be emotionally open — because you know that no matter what, those few, strong, fantastic people are always going to be on your team.

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4. When You’re Done with Drunken Makeouts

Okay, your twenties are about experimentation, $3 wine from T Joe’s and starting your career — whatever that career may be.

It’s completely fine to live your life, go out with your friends and make out with complete strangers in shabby dives. You’re young. If you’re going to be a drunken troll, now is the time to do it. Because these are the years we never have to apologize for.

The only thing you’d ever have to be sorry about is if you didn’t live life to the fullest and didn’t take those chances, let your hair down and be a wild child.

It’s when you’re ready to put those times away, and stop making out with (erm — sleeping with?) strangers that you know you’re ready for something serious. I’m not saying that once you decide you’re ready for monogamy that you have to be an old hag and stay in night after night.

What I mean is that you no longer have the desire to go out, be a hot mess and lip lock with some loser you’ll give a fake number to and run away from at the end of the night.

It’s when you’re ready to find a person to spend that time with, to be there with you and your friends. Or, to just stay in and watch Netflix. It’s when you’re ready to put those stranger-danger hookups to bed that you’ll be ready to share your real bed with someone worth the time.

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5. You Have to Be Over the Ex

It’s hard to say when it happens. I mean when it really happens. When you can truly say that you’re finished with your last relationship. It’s easy to say, “Oh, honey, I am DONE.” But do you mean it? When he texts, are you still responding? When he likes your sh*t on Facebook, are you still so about it? It’s okay not to be over it. We’re girls.

Our relationships with men are complicated… to say the least. You know you’re ready to really move on and commit to someone else when you can say, “Hey, I don’t want no scrubs” — and really mean it. “Ex” is in front of boyfriend for a reason. You may have to tell yourself why over and over and over… but he’s an “ex” for a reason.

When you’re done, and I mean really done (like cake in the oven done), you know you’re ready for the next great thing — intermediate hookups aside, of course.

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6. When You Get a Dog… or a Plant

Once you’re able to be responsible enough to care for something other than yourself, you can maybe start to think about taking on the responsibility of caring for someone’s heart and emotional wellbeing.

I’m not responsible enough to have a dog, how on earth am I supposed to be expected to be responsible enough to have a boyfriend? I am, however, the proud mother of a basil plant named Ernest… well, I was until I drowned him by over-watering. Is it possible to kill something because you love it too much?!? RIP, Ernest, RIP.

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7. When You Forget the Fairy Tale

Many of us have grown up thinking that we’re going to just suddenly meet the man of our dreams, know instantly that’s he’s the one and be swept off our feet. That’s just not how love works. Every man you meet is going to have flaws. There is no perfect, infallible person out there.

It’s not to say that the right guy isn’t out there because I’m sure he is, but he probably isn’t going to be some handsome prince and your relationship isn’t going to be perfect.

Stop trying to live in a fantasyland and start deciding what real, human qualities you want in a partner. Unless you can bring yourself down to earth, you’re going to end up unsatisfied.

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8. When You Finally Have a Separate Piece of Furniture to Store Your Booze

When you’ve finally gotten a bar for your apartment (NOT from Ikea!) — you can start to accept your blossoming maturity.

When you aren’t keeping your Jack Daniel’s next to your salt shaker, and when you have purchased special glasses designated for alcoholic beverages (aka you’re no longer drinking vodka out of a mug that says “YOLO”).

Once you can say you’ve gotten your life together to the point you can invite someone over for a proper nightcap — that’s when you can start considering the future of your love life.

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9. When You Desire an Equal

Forget Cinderella, think Mulan. You shouldn’t want your relationship to be with some guy who has to come and find you — come and save you.

Li Sheng fought for Mulan and she came fighting right back. I want a man who is willing to go to the ends of the earth for me and whom I’m willing to do the same for — not some asshat who sends his servant to stick a slipper on my lady-foot that’ll probably shatter the second I try to walk.

I am a fighter, not a damsel. We are women and we are strong. You need to come to understand enough about yourself and your personhood to desire an equal, a partner in love and in life.

You’re ready for the right guy to come along only when you’re ready to put the work in, hard, every day. You’re ready when you’re prepared to build a bond out of love and sacrifice.

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10. When You Can Rely on Yourself for Money

There is nothing more satisfying than working hard to get what you want — to know that every single thing in your life you won for yourself — there is nothing sweeter than that.

Being handed everything isn’t going to serve you and it certainly isn’t going to make you the strong, independent person you want to be. Before you start looking for Mr. Right, try making yourself Miss Moneybags (or at least Miss Financiallystable).

Work towards your dreams and goals. Get to where you want to be in your career, and as a person. It’s true, sometimes the right person comes along, unexpectedly, and since you’re right for each other, you get the support you need to achieve your goals, regardless of your relationship status. But you shouldn’t expect that to happen.

And you shouldn’t wait around for a daddy with an Amex. Focus on yourself first, before focusing on someone else. If you rely on a man for money — the power structure shifts and you’re no longer the one who completely controls your life.

You should be able to pay your own student loans, your own bills, for your own groceries. You’re ready to invite a guy to come and enrich your life when you know that, without him, you can enrich your own. (See what I did there?)

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11. (You Know You’ve Found the One) When You’re Willing to Put His Needs Above Yours

When you’ve found The One, “I” doesn’t exist anymore, only “we.” When you’ve found The One, “me” doesn’t hold precedence anymore, only “we.” Not to diminish what I said in #1, it really is necessary to always love yourself the most (even if it’s by only a slight margin).

What I mean to say is that when everything isn’t about you anymore, when you’re willing to consider the needs and wants of this other person above your own, then that is when you can believe that you’ve truly found the person you’re meant to be with.

The key is being able to have enough self-worth, enough clean towels, enough love and enough dignity to know — and insist — that the person you end up with is truly the person you deserve to be with.

That he isn’t someone you’re with because you’re lonely or sad or just plain old sick and tired of being single — but a person who makes you a better you, a person who makes you a better version of the you that you took the precious time to fall in love with in the first place.

Jealousy...

Jealousy...

 is an emotion, and the word typically refers to the negative thoughts and feelings of insecurity, fear, and anxiety over an anticipated loss of something of great personal value, particularly in reference to a human connection. Jealousy often consists of a combination of emotions such as anger, resentment, inadequacy, helplessness and disgust. In its original meaning, jealousy is distinct from envy, though the two terms have popularly become synonymous in the English language, with jealousy now also taking on the definition originally used for envy alone.

But for me...

Its different... a little

I call it something that i can't control it

Something that makes me feel abit at unease

I tend to be jealous at many things

Tend to be jealous at my friends

I call it a symptom

A symptom where it take over control of me

Where i tend to feel down.

Where i tend to think alot

Why?

I can't explain it

It's hard to explain how i feel that time

My heart feels like it wanna erupt

My mind feels like it wanna explode

It is our nature

Some say it can be nurture

But all i know

I can control it sometimes

I try to think positive

Try to be on a good side

But all i know

I care for her

And i think that's why i feel jealous

My feelings for her will never fade

It will grow stronger

And that's why i still will be by her side.

When she needs it...

I will be there.

What I Know...About Myself...

What I know about myself?

I know i'm weak and fragile

Why?

I have a weak body and i mean physically.

A body like mine, tend to cause me to think a lot.

"Why do i have this body?"

"Why am i like this?"

Lack in stamina

Lack in weight

Lack in height

That's what i know about my body.

I tend to have stomach problems

At random times

At times when im nervous

At times when i have anxiety

At times when i meet the girl i like.

That's what i know about my body condition.

What I know about myself?

I know i have a weak mindset

A mind that would make me give up on things easily

A mind that would try to gives me dilemma...a lot

My mind makes me to lose focus a lot.

Im not smart nor dumb

At least i have common sense

And common knowledge

That's what i know about my mind

I tend to give up things that i couldn't possibly do

Or things i couldn't finish it

I always have no logic sense

Nor able to figure out things quickly

What i know about me?

But...

All I know that,

I think about others

I think how others feel

My mind will tend to entertain those in need

Those who need appreciation

Those who need help

Those who need love

My mind loves to help people

I know my personality very well

I know i'm friendly

I know i love to help others

I know i care for others

I know i'm fun to be with

I know i'm funny as well.

What i know about me?

I know i was born into this world to change those around me

I want to make those around me to be happy

But what do i get in return?

Its simple, a smile.

A smile will do fine with me.

Thats the reward i get in return and that i accept

And that's What I Know about Me...