Be real.

1) Be Real

Pretending to be something you’re not is a great way to repel women. Being real means you’re vulnerable and exposing your self, showing who you really are. Many men don’t want to do this because if they get rejected, they won’t have a scapegoat to dull the emotional blow to their ego.

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2) Speak To Be Heard

As a man, you want to be heard, so speak up. One of the creepiest things is when a man talks to a woman and automatically lowers his voice in submission, exposing his lack of confidence.

Speak up; only creepers whisper. Use your lungs properly so you don’t sound like you’re going through puberty.

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3) Show Interest In Her

Don’t talk about yourself; talk about her. It’s a simple concept, but so many guys still ask, “What do I talk about?”

Show interest in her, and your conversation topic will be taken care of. You will learn about your prospective girlfriend, and she will appreciate your interest.

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4) Learn How To Speak Like A Gentleman

A gentleman speaks in an educated vocabulary and tone of voice. His words flow and his voice is soothing, deep and relaxed.

You don’t need to go to Harvard; you just need to read books and practice speaking slowly.

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5) Learn To Be A Man

This means not running away from challenges, and facing your fears. How you really feel about yourself will come out in your personality and behaviors.

Take on your greatest fears to build yourself into a confident man. It’s easier to appear confident when you actually are.

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6) Approach, Like a Gentleman

No one likes a sleazy pick-up line; when you go talk to women, do so as a gentleman. Be upfront, direct and tactful. A gentleman doesn’t use some technique or line just because he read a cheesy book that told him it works.

This is where your foundation as a man will form. If you’re a lying, deceitful, social wreck, then you need to work on yourself first. Create a blueprint for your life based on who you really want to be and stick to it. Values don’t count if they’re just an afterthought.

Heartbreak Girl

You call me up,
It's like a broken record
Saying that your heart hurts
That you never get over him getting over you.
And you end up crying
And I end up lying,
'Cause I'm just a sucker for anything that you do.

And when the phone call finally ends,
You say, "Thanks for being a friend,"
And we're going in circles again and again

I dedicate this song to you,
The one who never sees the truth,
That I can take away your hurt, heartbreak girl.
Hold you tight straight through the day light,
I'm right here. When you gonna realize
That I'm your cure, heartbreak girl?

I bite my tongue but I wanna scream out
You could be with me now
But I end up telling you what you wanna hear,
But you're not ready and it's so frustrating
He treats you so bad and I'm so good to you it's not fair.

And when the phone call finally ends
You say, "I'll call you tomorrow at 10,"
And I'm stuck in the friend zone again and again,

I know someday it's gonna happen
And you'll finally forget the day you met him
Sometimes you're so close to your confession,
I gotta get it through your head
That you belong with me instead

Once A Close Friend, Now A Stranger

We get to see and hear this everyday,everywhere.

From people we know and from people we don't know

Friends, family, relatives, and even strangers

A phrase where we can never escape nor forget about it

A phrase where it bound to happen to us

Once A Close Friend, Now A Stranger

From a stranger to being a friend

From a friend to being a close friend

Those are stages on how friendship goes or flow

The funny thing was how we understand each other

We know each other pretty well

Till people said that we are like partners or like siblings

Things we shared

Thoughts we expressed to each other

We know each other darkest secret

Chatted with each other everyday

Going out, hanging out

And always be there for each other when needed

It creates a bond, creates a relationship between them

But,

As times takes its course

Things change

Everything change

And that bond has become a very thin line

It's just weird how this happen

Happen to all of us

Why? How? What?

Causes this to happen

From those happy days we spend with each other

Now turn into like we have never met each other before

As we bump into each other, we just say "Hi" and "Bye"

Those moment before this has been now long forgotten

As felt like we are just fading apart

Slowly disappearing

Once A Close Friend, Now A Stranger

20 True Facts About Me

20 True Facts About Me

The 20 Facts About Me has been going on viral on Facebook and Instagram. I did it, but now i'm gonna do another version, similar but 20 true facts about me

1. The only son in the family yet the youngest, never like to be alone at home where both my sisters are working overseas. Seeing the rest enjoyed their siblings company as where i have to be at home with my parents

2. A fool. A fool that believe in anything and follows it to the end. A lot of my friends tend to said that i'm a sincere fool where i tend to walk into the path where i know it will never go my way, but still follow that path

3. A loner. Now this may be shocking, but yes, i'm a loner. it may seem i hang out a lot with friends, but deem down inside, i'm a lone wolf. I tend to place myself away from people where i know i feel safe being just by myself

4. A talkative ass. Yes, i'm a talkative boy, and yes i know i can get annoying but that's just me being me. As a loner, we have a lot to say as we seldom talk with others, as we kept all our words and just exploded when we talk with someone.

5. Easily jealous. It may be hard to admit but yes i'm easily jealous with others. Things such as how successful people are compare to me or how close people are compare to me. From it, it makes me scary when people see me.

6. Over-thinking. I always over-think even though its just a small matter. My mentality tend to do this when something doesn't go my way or how it doesn't satisfy me. Even though i'm alone, i also tend to think a lot. And that's what makes me scary.

7. A caretaker. I have always been the caretaker among my friends. The guy who is there to take care of them when they are drunk or just being needed to be taken care of

8. A shoulder friend. Same as being the caretaker, i have been the friend who needed someone to be there when they feel down, or when they feel sad. I'm always there when people are in need. But in return, not many people are there for me when i needed it.

9. A filler. I've been always a person who come in to fill in their loneliness or their emptiness. When they feel in need of someone to chat with, without any rejection i will just be that person who will fill up that gap.

10. A sensitive guy. I'm a very sensitive guy who tend to cry over something that are very sad or something dramatic. When i'm sensitive its easy to notice.

11. Emotional guy. Same as above, it is obvious when i  get emotional and that's also when i'm scary as well.

12. A jackass or a jerk.

13. A loyal bitch. To admit it, i can be as loyal as a dog to its owner. I never cheat and i never chase others if i have a partner at that time

14. Without hesitation, any friend that in need of any help, i will just say yes and just jump right in to help them out. No matter what i will be there to help

15. A lazy bum. Sadly to admit this, i'm a lazy bum but like what Bill Gates said before, a lazy guy will always find the quickest way to settle a problem

16. Creative. I'm good with DIY stuff, some presents that i gave are consists of DIY

17. Easily heartbroken

18. Weak body. I have a weak body and yes i tend to get sick. But, there's 1 sickness or illness that i possess, i tend to produce more acid in my stomach than normal. And that's why i have been working out and go for sports lately just to keep fit.

19. Being dramatic. Yup, that's me

20. Lastly, a boy where people treat him like a tool. Being used when needed, thrown away when its not needed.

There are just 20 true facts about me 

Shadow Of Life

Shadow Of Life
Walking in the shadow of fear
drowning endlessly by a single tear
running along side of self-discovery
fearing the loss of self- recovery
parts of mind going unknown
dangerous sides going unshown
one day you will eventually die
so today make everything right

Always Be Your Shadow

Always Will Be Your Shadow,

Looking Out For You,
You May Not Feel My Presence,
But I'm Always By Your Side,
Guiding You Through Thick And Thin,
Will Always Be Your Faded Shadow.

Being A Shadow

I've always been a shadow
A shadow to people
Who guide you while not being there physically
But mentally
A shadow who care for you
Whenever you need it
I know when you are sad and sit there crying
I was there, by your side
I couldn't speak
Nor say anything
But just sit there with you
And listen to your problem
My presence will not be felt by you
Nor notice by you
But I'm always there
You don't know it that's why
I'm fine just being by your side
As long your are safe and happy
In a dark place, where you won't be able to see me
But, I'm still there, unseen
As long there is light around you
I can be seen
The brighter the light, the more i can be seen
But still unnoticeable
I shall be the shadow
That will guide you to the brightest light
Support you throughout the journey
As to find that light
Being a shadow
I will be there for you, always

Great stories...

Great stories from books, novels, poems and other literature related products comes from experiences or great creative ideas. Some can just write a book while sitting in a toilet and who knows, it become a hit. Some may write a good book when they just go out explore or maybe just sit at a place where they could get inspirations.

I've always wanted to write a story based on experience that i had gone through during my lifetime.
A story based on a true story and maybe a little of fiction in the story. But, for people like me, now im gonna write a story based on a dream i had. A dream that was surreal that i thought it happen to me in reality itself.

This dream i had was few years back, a story of a poor boy who befriend a rich girl who has a fatal illness that could not be recover nor able to be cure. From a friendship story to a romantic story. From a happy memory to a sad memory. The dream i had had man transitions that could make myself hate the protagonist and the antagonist and vice-versa. The question is, how am i suppose to make it a good story, how to make it 300+ pages long story?

A story maybe i couldn't even finish it.

Time will tell. But this story, i really really want to write it.

No Idea

What i feel

How i feel

What im gonna post

For today

Im not sure about it

Im not sure how i feel

Im not sure what to post

I know blogs are like personal diaries

Where one share their moments

Share their feelings

Their memories

I was told this by a certain person

Who i used to be close with

Now i really don't know what to post nor share

My mind has been going everywhere

Thinking alot

Not sure what

But i have been thinking alot

I had insomnia for the past weeks

No appetite

Parents and friends said that i look very pale

Some even said i look weak

Truthfully

I felt that way as well

Getting sick and tired easily

 Funny thing about me

I had been going to my special place

Just sit there

Relax

But i felt that something is not right

Its missing Someone

Wish You Were Here, Sitting Back To Back, With Me

Everytime i went there

I felt it missing someone

A miss in the picture

A place where i used to say "Where It All Begin"

Everything begin at that special place

My memories

My experiences

My moments

Gathered at that special place

Grasps That Moment, Reach For It

A place where i go just to think back

All the moments, experiences and memories that i had been through

A place where i share with others who i truly care and love

Now it felt empty

Just only me and the wind

A Special Place, To Me